Working to Live

In life's unpredictable journey, we're often reminded of what truly holds value when faced with challenges. Recently, someone very close to me encountered a health scare, prompting a profound reevaluation of priorities. While I'm grateful to report a positive prognosis, the experience has reminded me about the importance of cherishing every moment. We always assume our priorities are in proper order until the unexpected catches us off guard. 

As the adage goes, we should be working to live, not living to work. This sentiment resonates now more than ever as I temporarily relocate to Denver to support my family member through their journey to recovery. Despite the physical distance, I’ll still be present with my work family.  Thanks to modern technology, I'm able to seamlessly continue fulfilling my responsibilities while ensuring my loved one receives the care and attention they need. I’m incredibly grateful to be living in a time when I can do both. 

But a precarious balance is still necessary. While our professional endeavors are undoubtedly essential, they pale in comparison to the well-being of those we hold dear. Yes, I’ll be able to work in Denver. But my number one priority during this time will be my family. It has to be. If not, what’s the point? 

It’s easy, especially for a team like ours—always pushing, always striving—to become ensnared in the pursuit of success and productivity. However, it's crucial to pause and recalibrate our focus, directing our energy towards fostering meaningful connections and nurturing our relationships. These bonds serve as the foundation of our lives, offering solace, joy, and unwavering support during life's trials and triumphs. Who am I without my friends? My kids? My grandchildren? Even my pups! The mark we’ll leave behind consists of fragments of every person (or animal!) we love. We are forged together by our relationships and made stronger by our connections. 

Most of the time, I use these blogs to propel other leaders and teams in the direction of innovation, creativity, compassion, and collaboration. These are tenets I hold dear. But today I only want to remind you that when the unexpected comes—and it will—do not hesitate. Make the call, reschedule the meetings, and hop on the plane. It doesn’t matter how much we accomplish in the professional world if we leave the personal in its wake.

For the time being, I’m going to do what I need to do, and I encourage you to do the same. Work hard, but remember what you’re working for. 

Thanks for being on this journey with us.